More Thoughts on The Enigmatic Belgian Fan

I think anyone who has a FEEDJIT widgit on their blog, will have an Enigmatic Belgian fan of their own.



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enigmatic dance

You & I
oh what an enigmatic mix

when I look in your eyes
I see a reflection of me
and my own eyes
hold a reflection of you

we mirror each other

our hands dip
together
tracing the bossanova beat
that lazily passes through
the air
and us

we don't even need words

the smile is the same
the raised eyebrow is the same
the slightly wicked laugh
that promises bad things under the moonlight
is the same
the soft sigh that slips out
is the same

even the names are not important
when the basic nature
is the same

there is no need to speak
when it feels so good to savour the mystery

there is no need for questions
when there are plenty of answers
in the movement, the sway of the body, the eyes knowing look

ah

this is what happens
when you let yourself be free
one enigma to another
floating on an enigmatic sea...

***Angel
(inspired by one of Sinner's sinful songs)




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An Enigmatically Dynamic Education: Marketplace Author Laura Antoniou & Educator Midori ~ Authentic Power Dynamics and D/s Workshops

Be still my kinky heart.

I am always on the prowl to see where interesting BDSM Workshops are offered around the world. Recently, I added a new category to my Enigmatic Angel Lists blog: Tasty Courses & Workshops Around The World.

And of course, I have long been aware of Midori's workshops around the world. Many local BDSMers have participated in her Rope Dojo workshops. And I've been subscribed on her mailing list forever.

And yes, I did know that Laura Antoniou and educator Midori were well-acquainted, seeing as Midori wrote an introduction to one of my favorite Laura Antoniou Marketplace books.

But here is an item sent to me through the calender listings of Midori's mailing list,
that almost made my kinky heart stop:

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NEW! D/S PROTOCOL WEEKEND WITH LAURA ANTONIOU & MIDORI
(Washington DC & Toronto)

WHAT: "Passionate Bonds: Weekend Intensive for Conscious D/s & Protocol"

WHERE / WHEN:
2 Locations / Dates

- November 6 – 8, Washington DC
- November 20 – 21, Toronto, Canada

COST: $450 first person in the order. $400 for each additional individual.
Registration for both locations open September 18th at 
http://www.FHP-inc.com/classes.php

Join Marketplace author Laura Antoniou and educator Midori for a special weekend
intensive designed for people who enjoy authentic power dynamics and D/s,
who want to consciously create quality relationships that suit their
personal hungers and needs in the context of the real world.

Far beyond what you can learn from a book or a standard seminar,
participants will be guided through a special curriculum designed to
clearly identify their value system, behavior preferences and relationship goals.

Through the unique curriculum and its innovative tools, each individual or
relationship unit will create their own customized manual of effective protocol,
rules, etiquettes and codes of conducts.

Class size will be strictly limited to allow for a unique quality experience
emphasizing individualized attention.

Q&A

Q. Do I need to bring a partner?
A. No! Anyone may attend, partnered or not.

Q. I am fairly new and my partner and I are exploring options. Is this for me?
A. This is perfect for you; come on in and discover your passions.

Q. I have been in the Scene for a while and I have considerable experience.
Can this be helpful for me?
A. Absolutely. Crystallize your experience and desires into a tangible and
intentional format, which will allow for greater success in your current and
future relationships. Come and reacquaint yourself with the dreams and desires
that brought you into the scene, and find out things about yourself and
your partner(s) you might not have seen before.

Q. My primary and I have a submissive – can all three of us come?
A. Pricing for this intensive is purposefully set to allow for “relationship units”
of every size; this is by no means ‘couples only’!

Q. Is this a play event? Will there be play parties?
A. While the Passionate Bonds weekend won’t be hosting play parties,
the local play space will be great to go and explore. The weekend’s emphasis
is on the heart and mind of creating an on-going D/s-based relationship,
so get plenty of sleep and be prepared to think! There will be sections
where physical actions of protocol will be studied and acted out.
Beyond that, we encourage the attendees to create their own playtime as
part of the weekend.


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OK there is the very first item for my Enigmatic Angel Wish List:

• 1 pass for the November 20 – 21, Toronto, Canada, workshop!

Spoil me with this, my enigmatic admirers, and you will become my new kinky best friend!

Kinky kisses,
Angel

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1oo Enigmatic Things About Me

1. I taught myself to read between the ages of 3-4.
2. I learned to read thanks to Sesame Street.
3. 3 languages I've studied, that I'd like to take courses in again: German, Spanish & Italian.
4. I need to make a few wish lists.
5. I'm a big kid at heart.
6. I have a lot of fantasies about dominating men I still want to realize.
7. I have a lot of fantasies about dominating women I still want to realize.
8. I have a lot of fantasies about black men I still want to realize.
9. I have a lot of fantasies about black women I still want to realize.
10. My biggest turnoff is super-aggressive Dominant men who have no imagination.
11. I hate would-be submissives that approach me who show no imagination.
12. My submissive side is profound and deep.
13. I am super-protective of my submissive side and rarely show it publicly.
14. I want to learn so much more about rope.
15. I think I'm weird most of the time.
16. I'm fascinated by weird things.
17. I'm fascinated by shadows.
18. I'm fascinated by mysteries.
19. I'm fascinated by both sides of pain.
    
20. My fantasy vacation would be to go all over Asia.
21. My real name sounds more exotic than my scene name.
22. Many women use my real name as their scene name.
23. I love having my feet pampered in so many ways.
24. I don't have my feet pampered as often as I'd like.
25. Many of my BDSM fantasies take place in a Science Fiction/Fantasy scenario.
26. I can't get enough of foreign films.
27. I can't get enough of kinky films.
28. When it comes to reading I like to multi-task, often reading 3 books at the same time.
29. I've reread some books so many times, they seem like old friends.
30. I've seen some films so many times, they seem like old friends.
31. I have no piercings or tattoos.
32. I'd like to get some piercings done.
33. I love trying different foods from different ethnic groups.
34. I drink very little alcohol.
35. I have a blue collection made up of many blue things.
36. I just can't have enough corsets.
37. I just can't have enough sexy shoes.
38. I'm an avid collector of lists.
39. I'm an extremely private person who is careful of my private space, in the real-world.
40. I'm an extremely private person who is careful of my private space, in the cyber-world.
41. As a teenager I was too damn smart for my own good and liked to squash people who underestimated me.
42. I am the most gentle person in the world.
43. I am the most curious person in the world.
44. I have many favorite teas and coffees.
45. I love a good rosé wine.
46. I wish I was a better cook.
47. I love when someone cooks for me.
48. I have a very small number of really close friends.
49. I have literally hundreds of acquaintances.
50. I'm a very out-going and social person.
51. I am also an introvert with a shy side.
52. I like things to be done just-so to my taste.
53. I love the feeling of an adrenalin rush,
54. I love to observe human behavior in any arena.
55. I am an INFJ, also known as a Counselor Idealist, found in only 2% of the population (apparently).
56. People have been surprised many times by my intuition.
57. I have many alternative spiritual beliefs.
58. I'm fascinated by people who have alternative spiritual beliefs.
59. I have a fear of heights.
60. I've pushed myself to experience heights, despite my fear of heights.
61. There are so many kinky toys I'd still like to try.
62. My taste in submissive candidates can be rather eccentric.
63. Lately I've been fascinated by the colour pink.
64. I still read children's books sometimes.
65. I love kids but have no interest in having any kids of my own.
66. I love French accents.
67. I've never been to France – but would love to.
68. Lots of people have complimented me on my French accent.
69. I'm a photography nut who loves to shoot.
70. I still haven't found the camera equipment of my dreams
71. I love to write and blog.
72. I've been writing poetry since....forever.
73. I love reading awe-inspiring poetry from other poets.
74. I can get inspired by almost anything.
75. I sometimes get bored easily.
76. There are so many courses I'd like to take.
77. I still haven't found the job of my dreams.
78. I prefer subtle things that leave a little to the imagination, than graphic things that are in your face.
79. I still get turned on by graphic things though.
80. I love to see two men kissing.
81. I love to see two men making love.
82. I love to see two women kissing.
83. I love to see two women making love.
84. I don't own enough porn.
85. I don't own an ipod.
86. I think gadgets are interesting, but I own few gadgets.
87. I'd like to learn how to play the guitar one day.
88. I like the way I sound when I sing but almost never sing in public.
89. I love long hot candle-lit baths but rarely make the time for them.
90. I love a great foot massage.
91. I love a great massage.
92. I like to give people compliments not to gain anything, but because it feels good.
93. I am very discriminating about who I compliment.
94. I am extremely curious about who the Enigmatic Belgian fan is, and would love to hear from them.
95. My taste in music encompasses a whole wide universe of sound.
96. I love to meditate.
97. I love to meditate in nature.
98. I love living life in the big city.
99. I've lived in the same city all my life.
100. I love reading other bloggers' lists about themselves.

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alchemy

I turn your flesh, your spirit, your soul
into something other

somewhere you soar
in your half-state

chasing a delicious wicked thought
I whispered in your ear

before

you were leaden
your world
grey dull silent

now

you shine like gold
that has been lovingly buffed
by caring tender hands

what a glimmering shimmering light you shine

as I send you away far away
on a journey of bliss and discovery

shine on, shine on
newly born one

I will nurture you
in your evolution
as you follow your quest

I will bring you far
off into the stars
now spinning in your mind

I am the Mistress Alchemist
of your
fate.

***Angel

(inspired by Liras and her transmutable blog)




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A FetLife Munch: An Enigmatically Slapping Good Time

Ah it was good to be back, back in the public kinky waters of Montreal.
Attending the FetLife Munch felt like kind of going home again.

I was happy to see a few of my favorite usual suspects. Like my good friend and some time *evyl* co-conspirator Mystress Lady Evyl, and one of my very favorite couples in our local scene MsV (our gracious hostess) and Master Andre, her fellow whipmaking partner.

Oh and what fun it was to slap hello my fellow Switch drakor, who I hadn't seen in awhile. I do believe that small slap put a little twinkle in his eye. And what are friends for? :)

It was also fun to meet some intriguing new people, including a warm & entertaining couple of out-of-towners.

And you never know where the conversation can lead during a Munch. Topics ran from the Intellikilt ( you just had to see it to believe it) and the legendary practical jokes between John Baku (boy wonder founder of Fetlife) and MasterZChicago.

I picked a great event for my return to the public scene - laid-back, fun & funny conversation with fellow BDSMers and kinksters, over some tasty seafood and steak. I actually liked the fact that it was a smaller crowd as well, was easier to talk to people.

My plan had originally been to go on to one of the other many happenings in town. Three other tempting events in the dark side were also going on during the night. I was really interested in finally attending one of KinkMontreal's little happy hours, which was scheduled a bit later on in the night. But seeing as I had a vanilla date planned for the morning, I decided to call it a night, as my fellow Munchers went each to continue their wicked evening with more dark fun in the night.

It felt good to be out again and happy I was to be in the kink-friendly Gay Village.

Being back in the Village made me remember how much I love roaming around that neighborhood. I love seeing all the wonderfully exotic range of gender-bending human creatures who stroll through the Village on a hot summer night.

Little snapshots caught my attention as I headed off home.

There a couple of gorgeous young boys casually walking together hand in hand.

Oh and a bashful pretty girl in a summery cotton white dress, eyes meekly looking down. Her black leather collar and silvery leash attached making a lovely contrast. Ah how tempting it was to just reach out and take that leash....somewhere.

And I headed on home still smiling my Mona Lisa smile filled with secret thoughts and thinking how very interesting my life is these days.

It's so true how life brings such wonderful things when you have no expectations.

Kinky food for thought,
Angel




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An Enigmatic Angel's Return To The Public Kinky Life

Today, I was trying to remember when was the last fetish or BDSM public (or even semi-public) event that I've attended. And you know what - I was stumped.

I think it may have been last year's Kinky Festival, which was a watershed for me in many ways. Lots of good and bad and light bulb moments there.

I was fortunate to attend 2 Kinky Girls' Night Outs in the past 6 months, which were just wonderful kinky-girl-bonding moments and so much fun.

But in terms of fully public events, it has been ages.

But tomorrow night, Friday August 21, will be my reentry into all things kinky, on the public stage. I will be attending the FetLife Montreal Munch, hosted by the ever gracious Ms V, who I am happy to call my friend.

Thinking of attending? Well check out the details here, through the FetLife discussion about it.

And if you do sign up, be sure to ask where to find a certain Enigmatic Angel.

I will be the one with the Mona Lisa smile, sitting in the corner there.

Kinky kisses,
Angel




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A Kissably Enigmatically Poetic Blog

If there is one thing that inspires a poet, is sublime poetry from other poets.

During my enigmatic travels, I recently found a blog filled such such sensually addictive poetry, it just made me sigh with a soulfully-deep contentment in my enigmatically poetic soul.

What do you get when you have a union between Cupid and Psyche?

A voluptuous blend of eye candy and soul food.

Join S. in her kissable journey so slowly and deftly unwinding in her Voluptas universe.

Just had to share this.

Kinky kisses,
Angel



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The Enigmatic Belgian Fan

Qui est-tu?
Dit moi.




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doucement, softly

doucement
je te vois

doucement
je te touche

doucement
je te comprends

doucement
je te prends

doucement

softly
I see you

softly
I touch you

softly
I understand you

softly
I take you

softly.

***Angel



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the body symphony

it began somewhere,
sometime

eyes glancing off of eyes

the barest skim of fingers
across bare skin

that small sharp intake of breath
when that frisson of excitement
passes through

the shy tremble riding its wave
across the anticipating body

a word or two on a page
that made the heart skip a beat
for a moment

the voice breathing into an ear
that knowing voice

small delicate movements
in the body symphony
created the initial landscape
of desire and hope and wishful things
building the crescendo
both wish will never come
because the waves consume
body mind soul in too many
delicious ways

ah

hold that moment
hold that thought
hold that feeling

tightly curled inside
unfurling ever so slowly, sensually soft
tortuously tenuous
delightfully painful in its intensity

hold it hold it hold it

right

there.

*** Angel 08/12/09



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