Friday, July 25, 2008

toi et moi


douce douce douce
ah cette touche
qui fait tourner
la tête

un glissement sur la peau
qui fait échapper
un petit murmure
du désir

ah celui qui
veux veux veux
d’être voulu comme ça
un petit cadeau
qui fait sourire
la bouche

je t’imagine
ici
et là
comme ça
avec moi

toi et moi
des possibilités
qui retournent
qui fait tourner
la tête.

*** Angel

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Tasting The Sugasm...Sugasm #141


Pic: Tara Tainton courtesy of Porn Saints.

Taste the Sugasm....
Go on....you know you want to... ;)

Angel :)

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The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants.

Want in Sugasm #142? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.


This Week’s Picks


Comedy vs. Tragedy
“Are you on your period? What? Did he just say…”

Ian, or, Sometimes Sex is Hilarious
“In short, it isn’t sex blogger sex.”

A Wish
“I wish that you could know the indescribable pleasure of being enfolded in your warm, gentle wetness.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Road Rage

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)

BDSM & Fetish
Auction of a Slave
Changing Cravings For Pain: A Survey ******MY SUGASM ENTRY******
A Beautifully Cruel Predicament Bondage Scene
Cuntwriting
Fitting Punishment
The house in Vienna
July MVK: Play piercing
Leather Retreat 2008 – The Toll Booth
Mz Berlin Gets The Bastinado And Rack Torture On Hogtied
Necessary Roughness
Routine Maintenance, pt. 2
A Scene in Three Parts … (part III)
Taken and Collared as a Sex Slave while her husband sleeps
Telegraph
Trying on new shoes, Friday night edition

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Forgetting
How Do You Flirt With Milk?
The Hunt
I Don’t Usually Date, but…
I have huge tits.
Men on Pointe
My Femme Cock
Nibbles and Bits: Vegetarian? Really? Doh!
Present and first love making

Sex Advice
How to Make Her Want Anal Sex
Play Safe
The Power of Suggestion- And How It Helps You Meet Women

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Gisele Bundchen Topless and Nipple Slip Pictures
HNT - Purple Lace Part Two
Lady Sascha Does HHNT
Marta - Professional
Once upon a time HNT
Pornsaint Tara Tainton
A rose by any other name would smell as sweet -HNT
Sam Bound

Sex Humor
It did not work
When your mother has more sex than you do…

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Can’t Get Enough
Fiction - The Wrong Smith Girl
Getting to fuck the neighbor 15
Harder…
In any language,…
Le Cadeaux
Nine: of nasty names
Oh Honey, Make Yourself Cum for Me
The Parking Garage
Pointless
The Ride.
Rub a Dub Dub
The Second Time Around
Slow.Soft.Hot.Perfect
Spin the bottle-the conclusion
Tits~n~Teets 2
TNT - Part 2
The Wanting
Writhe

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Can A Film Prostitute In 1930’s Shanghai Fare Any Better Than One Of The 100,000 Prostitutes Working The Streets In The City?
Donate To Satine Phoenix’s Tantric Exploration
Escort X: Find great escorts
Spanking erotica interview with Alison Tyler
The value of erotic blogging
Wanted: Your Orgasms Caught on Tape

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Thursday, July 17, 2008

Traces of love, Traces of pain




i stalked through the streets of the Plateau
following the spoor of a prey
only my eyes
and the eyes of my camera could see

i love uncovering the secrets of Montreal this way
shooting and framing it for my pleasure
exposing something only my eye spots
in a sea of overflowing stimuli


traces of love


the traces of love called to me, beckoned
a curious stamp on different textured surfaces
stone, wood, brick – anywhere there was a small free space
a bleeding heart that smudged
when quickly and surreptitiously
splashed
onto the walls
by the nimble hands of the graffiti artist


bam bam bam
love love love was here
and is now gone

Who was the lover?
and who was the beloved?


my camera continued to follow the trail

hoping for more clues
capturing the evidence

traces of pain

all along the same stretch of funky boutiques, used book and cd shops
and other arty little curiosities
i found a twin trail following the love

the trail of pain
a shocking spray paint gash of a band-aid
covering what i wondered
band-aid after band-aid after band-aid
i captured all these jewelled badges
this gaudy rainbow of pain
the trail of pain crying out
for just a kiss

to make it all better

a week later

i head back to the scene
to check what happened to the traces

the traces of pain
being made of a more stubborn substance
remain in their flashy glory

the traces of love
have been washed away
by an uncaring hand
who only saw
the ugliness of insidious art
and not the tenderness of the hand
that had created it

time passes

one day, much to my surprise
i find a band-aid slashing a wall
just around the corner
from where i live

oh yes there is pain here
and somehow the pain knew
it would be welcome
close to home.



*** Angel

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Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Changing Cravings For Pain: A Survey


The Effect Of Pain On The Body - Long Term


This is something that has been on my mind quite a bit these last few months, and wanted to hear some opinions on the subject.

Burning questions for your consideration:
  1. For those of you into pain, have you noticed any changes in your pain tolerance as time goes on?
  2. As time goes on, do you find yourself craving more pain? Or less?
  3. What is the effect long-term of physical punishment on the body?
  4. For those who have years of experience, has your tolerance for pain grown...or diminished?
  5. What other factors affect one's tolerance for pain?
  6. What other factors affect one's craving and desire for pain?
I was talking to a fellow Switch at a Kinky BBQ I attended recently on the subject of pain. Judging from the scars he showed me on his face and body, this was someone who did have a good tolerance for pain. After the play session he had there, he mentioned how good it felt to feel the pain again and how much he had missed it, since it had been quite some time since he had experienced pain on a regular basis.

I myself definitely have a taste for pain, on both sides of the equation. Lately I have been finding my tolerance seems to have diminished, to my dismay. I don't know if this is just a temporary aberration happening for some reason. It made me wonder if the body stores a sense memory in the tissues and that perhaps at some point it becomes too sensitized. Is this possible?

Yet on the other hand, I was also talking to some Dominants (at the same Kinky BBQ) about how some people develop "leather asses", who require higher and higher levels of pain to be delivered on their bodies to be able to actually feel the pain.

Lots of food for thought.

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I would appreciate any comments and feed-back on this subject!

Please enter comments on this post or send me private messages via my Contact The Enigmatic Angel link.

Thanks!
Angel :)

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Tasting The Sugasm...Sugasm #140


Pic: Mistress E courtesy of Dark Mistress.

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Warning:

Tasting the Sugasm can be highly addictive!

I know I'm hooked!

Angel ;)

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The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #141? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks

“Are you a sex blogger or a sexy blogger?”
“It builds a community that I am so proud to be part of.”

The J Word
“And while you’re with her, I’ll be with him.”

Transcending moment
”It’s that place between fear and arousal, and they are so very closely related.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Chill Pleasure

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)

BDSM & Fetish
Bathroom bang
Bros Not Hoes - F/m Spanking Video Clip
Cock training
Galerías de spanking: Spanking Server
Games Grown Ups Play
The Most Amazing Sex (and I didn’t come)
Mr. and Mrs. Kink Have Great Sex (Again)

My First Ever Fetish Photography Shoot & Other Wonderful Things (****MY SUGASM ENTRY!****)

New spanking gallerie - Two girls spanked
Religion and BDSM
Rope
TES Fest 2008 was fabulous!
Your Slut

Sex Advice
Ask Miss Bliss-How Do I Know If A Girl Likes Me?
Fetish Safety - Branding
The Kivin Method: Guaranteed Orgasm for Women

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Advanced Exhibitionism
Autobiography of a Masturbator: Porn O’Graphicus, Part 2
Club Tantra: My Experience, Unabridged
Distraction
Fucking no foreplay
Getting to fuck the neighbor 9
Him
HNT - Peach
Insanity never felt so good
Interludes - part 1
Memoir Of A Married Woman
Popping His Cherry
Re: Dinner Last Night
“Red Bottoms” (Complete)
Sloppy Seconds, Then Thirds
That Time of the Month
Whiskey Kisses (unedited)

Sex Work
Sex Worker Solidarity: Catalina
Happy Thoughts on Being a Phonesex Op…
Stamp on my forehead saying “ask me about your fetish”

Sex & Politics
Natalia Antonova on Objectification and Desire
Teen Sex: The New After-School Special?
Women Enjoy Relative Sexual Freedom this 4th of July

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Bedroom Radio #18: Artemis Hunter and the Silver Bullet
Calstar Spanking - Severe deep stripe marks
Cheerleader is tired in gangbang video
Free video audition of Amsterdam sex performer
Half-Nekkid and Getting Shaved
HNT - A bit cheeky
HNT - Purple Lace
Making Love to the Camera
Mz Berlin Took This Picture Of Herself In Her New Wasp Creation Corset

Sex Humor
Top 6 Reasons for Not Shaving Your Beaver

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Catalina loves Lochai
Comstock Films
Drink Semen for Better Health
Interview about spanking erotica with Spanked contributor Teresa Noelle Roberts
January Seraph Is A Hot Femdom Dominating Jade Indica In Lesbian Latex Role Play
The Monday Buzz: The Bandito
Penny Flame Fucks A Handyman With A Strap-On and Feeds Him His Own Cum
Product Research: Blow Job Dildo
Yes! Yes! Yes! Personal Lubricant

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Be nice… until it is time to not be nice…
Finding out your good friends are swingers
Naughty Text Messages and Perverted Friends Makes Life Fun
Sex Advice Review: “Tips to Better Sex and Sleep”
Silence.

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Wednesday, July 9, 2008

Tasting The Sugasm...Sugasm #139

Pic: Sandy Summers courtesy of Badgirl’s Hotbox.

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #140? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks

Flunking A Call
“I fell silent again and tried to think. What did he want?”

Revision
“He seemed… perfect. ”

Shaving, revisted.
“I don’t do it for society, for anyone who will or will not be seeing it. I do it for me.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Exploitation, objectification and breaking the law…

More Sugasm

Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)

BDSM & Fetish
Agony of Ecstasy: the Ruined Orgasm
And marie Moaned
FLOG memories
Get a Load of These Gams!
Impromptu Ravishment Play
Miss Lioness
The Piggiest Pigs at Leather Retreat
Switchy Thoughts on Spiritual Domination (My FIRST EVER Sugasm-accepted entry!)
Testing the New Implements

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Be The Man Other Men Envy, Be PullJoy
Catalina loves Her Latest BILF List
HNT - Venus and Mars
Of Pillow Fights & Panty Showing
The Way To a Man’s Heart - A Play in One Act
What is with all of the Swinging? - Truth or Fiction

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
A Hot Medical Femdom Scene With Mz Berlin, Kayla Paige, and A Dirty Sponge Gag
I Want It! I Want It! I Want It! It’s At Exquisite Restraints Corsets
The Liberator Sex Wedge: Form, Function, Fucktacular. I love it.
New Toy Alert
Not Your Regular Vibe
Sex, Drugs & Baseball
Why inviting bi-girls to brunch is the best
Will You Carry Me Over The Threshold?
Zen And The Art Of Pornographic Madness

Sex & Politics
All Wound Up and No One to Spring On

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Cheerleader is fucked hard donkey style
Happy Fourth of July -HNT
Half-Nekkid on the Road to Hell
InFocus Girls
Pornsaint Madison Young
Property of Lady Evyl
Sandy Summers in red lingerie
Sundaycore
Thank you for the flowers
Tila Tequila Totally Nude

Sex Work
Meet Lew, My CockSucking CumEating StrapOn Slut

Erotic Writing and Experiences
2nd Blogiversary
Becoming
The Cam Lover pays to fist a 19 year-old Ass
Fiction: Taxicab Confessional
Four: of weeks and wantings
Friend with benefits- properly fucked
Getting to fuck the neighbor 5
Good weekend
Gustav Klimt Nachlass
I love the way you cuddle!
Kung Fu Theater
Monday’s Slut Journal
More bloody married people and doctor/patient roleplay…..
My first visit to Manbar
Night Ride: Trigger’s Bike
Permanent haze
The prize for working
Traction Bound

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Sunday, July 6, 2008

My First Ever Fetish Photography Shoot & Other Wonderful Things

model: Anastasia

Capturing The Essence Of BDSM

Last Friday night at Club Sin was quite the eventful evening in many different ways.

But one of the greatest things that happened was being able to shoot a play scene, my first ever fetish photography shoot.

And it was hot! And challenging! And just one of those wonderful spontaneous things that happen in life that just make your day…really!





Ever since I picked up a new digital camera a few months ago, I’ve been itching to try my hand at fetish photography. Now this is something new and challenging to me on many different levels. I’ve been shooting for years for fun with my manual SLR and love to try new things. Fetish Photography isn’t just new as a niche for me…it’s new as a perspective as well. You see, what I usually shoot is architecture. And textures. So basically – objects. This year, I’ve started to explore shooting people more. So I have been learning about the particular demands and challenges of shooting human flesh. And recently I started combining my love of photography with my love of bdsm and fetish things. Why not? It’s double the pleasure, after-all.

So when my good and wonderfully wicked friend Lady Evyl took some rope and tied up Anastasia, a very sweet submissive, to the cage at
Club Sin, I asked if I could shoot them and happily was granted my first shot at shooting live-action bdsm play.

Both my photographic subjects are lovely in their own way and I wanted to capture their inner and outer essence with my camera’s eye. Somehow the world shrank to a very small microcosm in that moment. The world around receded in the distance and I was only aware of the beauty that unfolds when a sublime scene is played out. It’s such an intricate dance of sight and sound and shadows that creates an intriguing spell on the mind. How to capture that feeling such a scene evokes? That was my challenge that I eagerly explored in a seemingly never-ending moment.

One thing I have always loved as a photographer is pushing my own limits. I love to see what is different and special in a frame. Where some people capture colours, I capture shapes. I know I have a tendency to shoot in a very macro way. It’s the details that pop out for me. The rope tenderly curled around a pale, delicate wrist. A firm hand striking vulnerable flesh. A sublime smile lost in space. A dash of red from a flogger landing on shiny red fabric stretching over barely covered flesh. Just some small things that my eye catches on and makes me dream. So many possibilities.

As a first-time experience, I was truly delighted. Not because what I shot was perfection. But because I pushed myself to try something new and learned so much about myself and a new form of photography in the process. That was a precious gift to me that also served to give me a hint of future things to explore.

There were many challenges I learned to shooting that night, in that space.
They included:

- dealing with the low lighting of a place like
Club Sin, especially with the restrictions of my camera equipment. No wonder the professional photographers at Club Sin look like they are loading up for bear with all the tons of gear they need to shoot in that light!

- shooting a play scene while people play, so as not to distract them in the moment.

- shooting a play scene in a public space, with other people and objects around.

- shooting around a very tight and restricted physical space with a limited number of angles.

So basically, there were many restrictions in shooting a scene like that, I discovered. But at the same time, it was an exhilarating adrenalin rush to shoot something special like that. I loved it! I wanted more! I definitely want to shoot more bdsm/fetish stuff and see where I can go with it. The live action thing alone was something challenging that I discovered I loved. So I will have to find more opportunities to learn and explore this new dimension and add to my photographic knowledge and repertoire.

What a delightful experience and how grateful I was to have two such stimulating and beautiful subjects for my first fetish photography shoot!

For those who are curious about what I shot, I will be uploading more pics to my FetLife.com private picture folder.

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As for the rest of my evening at
Club Sin, there were some very interesting developments that crossed my path. Maybe it is because of my photographer’s eye, but I so very much enjoy observing human behaviour. It’s an endlessly fascinating thing to watch the subtle dance that is a Fetish Night. So many small things that most people miss. Like noticing those who behave in a respectful manner…and those who don’t. It’s easy to spot the clueless of course. They are usually the men who proposition woman after woman only to be shot down, with little success.

But it’s mostly a wonderful thing to greet old friends and meet new people.
The expected and unexpected delights.

There were 2 people that I was very happy to meet, after having exchanged messages with each in different circumstances. Master Richard and his submissive Tallulah were in town from the U. K. and it was my pleasure to meet them in person for the first time. They were easily the most elegantly dressed couple in the Club and I was happy to chat with them for a brief moment.

I also had the unexpected pleasure of meeting and chatting with the lovely and gracious Contessa Alura, after having crossed paths with her on FetLife. She was there with her mother, who was visiting from out of town and I thought that was just too cool having a mom who would be open to going to a Fetish Night!

I also had a wonderful time hanging out with my friends at the Club and chatting with other people I already knew and had met in the past.

A great time was had all around at
Club Sin, yet again.

Angel :)

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