dreaming

my mind took me
elsewhere

i saw you there
i tasted you
i kissed your salty skin

my teeth wanted to take a bite

but my lips won
and traced the side of your face

sometimes
the tenderness comes out

sometimes

i just dream.

***Angel 05/22/09




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Under 40 ~ The New Kinky Bar

It was a blog post on KinkySexLink, the group blog that I contribute to, that triggered my thoughts on the age factor, in the local BDSM scene & BDSM/Fetish audiences in general.

There is absolutely no doubt in my mind that the fetish events in town (that´s the fetish ones - not the BDSM ones) have a majority of young kinksters. And honestly, alot of the marketing is geared at that demographic.

I see more & more events and things being organized for the under 40 (and under 35 crowd). I even saw an interesting kinky vampire movie casting call out recently - and all the female characters were young.

Is that what people want to see? Do these young kinksters who keep getting younger, all want to run away from the older pervs?

I´ve heard that even expressed from friends as well, that emphasis on looking for someone/something young & hot.

I find this highly ironic in some ways. In my vanilla life, about 90% of my friends are younger than I am. I still feel like a kid myself inside. I have no problem relating to those younger friends. And they seem to get something positive out of my friendship with them.

I don´t feel old, but lots of segments in our society would classify me as old because I´m 40. What is 40 supposed to feel like? I don´t feel old. If anything, I actually felt freer & younger when I turned 40. It´s the fearless factor I think. Suddenly I didn´t give a damn about many things and just want to drink life in. It´s been great.

But I remember being in my 20s and thinking 40 was ancient. Hmm maybe I should scratch that. Looking back, I dated/saw/played with several men who were in their 40s, when I was in my 20s.

I see that age attitude today, in the local kinky scenes.

Oh yes, there is a good strong contingent of the 40 + and even 50+ crowd.

Personally, I feel comfortable talking to everyone young, old & everyone.

But I don´t understand this great prizing of the young, hot kinksters - why so many seek this young flesh to play with and preference for it. I prize maturity over youth. By then again, my ideas of beauty in general I have come to realize so many times, are quite different from the norm. I have been with many different kinds of men. Some men that I was seeing that made women jealous because they were perceived as being ¨gorgeous¨, others who may have seemed ordinary to different eyes. All of them had something special for me. Just as my taste in women is quite different as well.

So where is this kinky age thing going?

When all those aging kinky babyboomers retire from the scene, will the kinky youngsters inherit the earth?

Kinky food for thought.

Angel




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An Enigmatic Taste

Who is being dominated?
Who is dominating?
You guess.

I love blurring lines. Messing with perspectives, skewing them. Nudging this. Pushing that.

Pushing limits. Reality, fantasy, reality-based fantasy & fantasy-based reality.

I love describing up from the down view. Peeking sideways while pointing to the back.

Playing with the now like it´s plasticine, elastic. Something earthy to be shaped and flung into the future, with a slice of the past.

Sometimes I write from both the dominant and submissive views at the same time. Really.

And my mind flows into both, in the same time & space. I´ve done that in my writing. In the vanilla world. In the BDSM-flavoured universe.

Sometimes I just love being a Switch.




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high

where does it begin?
where does it end?

dangerous beginnings

oh that adrenalin rush
setting off the mad synapses of your brain
snapping snapping snapping
the twisted circuitry
that just does not want to short out
ever

the high that climbs higher
oh it climbs higher
can it go higher
oh it just went higher
higher than the limits of your imagination
a thing you thought impossible

and you love it
you own it
you are the moment
you say this is enough
you say i can take this
you say who cares about tomorrow

but there is a tomorrow

and there will be a tomorrow

when the circuitry breaks down
when the body rush dies down
when the daisy chain of pleasure & pain breaks down

and that is the dangerous end

and this is just a story i am telling you
and this is also real.

***Angel May 1, 2009




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