BDSM, S&M and Sex And The City

"La Douleur Exquise!"
Sex And The City
Season 2
Episode 24





Lately, I have been binging on Sex And The City.

I have systematically been making my way through all the episodes.
Right now, I am up to Season 5.
Oh my, what a fun, girly-girl fest it has been! :)

I saw the movie this summer and had never watched an episode of the quintessential New York show before. So I promised myself that one day I would watch all the chapters of this hit show.

As I watched I realized, wow there are so many BDSM elements in Sex And The City!

And then I hit an episode called "La Douleur Exquise!" (The Exquisite Pain), about the hot new S&M restaurant that Samantha introduces the girls to, which leaves one thinking about the relationship between the girls and BDSM.

So I had a thought.

What if our Sex And The City gal pals
were in the BDSM Scene?
What roles would they fit?

And this is what I dreamed up - just for fun!

Samantha (Domme and Dominatrix)

Samantha is such a natural Domme and would make a great Pro-Domme as well.
Men paying for the privilege of pleasing her in every way - and leaving them frustrated? Perfect.

Somehow I imagine a large stable of glistening hot studs seeing to her every sensual and sexual need. Perfect gleaming oily manflesh begging to serve their Mistress all at once - and currying for her favour. She would be the very Domme Queen in her FemDom QueenDom.

And if she worked as a Pro-Domme?

Just imagine what her professional dungeon would look like.
Acres and acres of wicked gleaming toys. Oh and I imagine there would be a queening station somewhere in there as well. Since she enjoys fine dining in more ways than one. ;)

Didn't she just handle that riding crop so easily in that S&M episode?
You just knew she was no stranger to the kinkier side of the toy closet.

Charlotte (The Service-Oriented and Role-Playing Slave)

I see Charlotte being the Perfect French Maid, providing impeccable service to her Master, while fetching his slippers, pouring his drinks or tea for his guests. Giving her Master a wonderful massage, drying him with fluffy towels as he steps out of his bath,

Charlotte would also make an excellent Pony Girl. She would love being kitted out in her shiny and spic & span pony gear, trotting for her Master. And being ridden very very well. Oh so very British as well.

Miranda (The Switchy Switch)

Miranda is the most ambiguous of the 4 gal pals, in more ways than one.
She can be very tough and act and dress just like one of the boys - her butch side. Or she can also show a vulnerable submissive side, that craves being take care of, treasured and loved.

I can easily see her topping (both men and women), and then easily flipping to bottoming to taste some exquisite pain herself.

Carrie (The Sexual Submisive)

Well of course Carrie would be a sexual submissive. She probably already owns the largest collection of "fuck me shoes". All those dreamy Manolo Blahniks, Jimmy Choos, and Christian Louboutins. Just add more boots - especially the thigh-high kind - and her wardrobe would be set.

And boy oh boy doesn't her character just scream submissive?
All her neurotic game-playing - I bet she would love to be taken in hand by the very firm - yet loving and sensual hand of a man.

OK none of this is at all politically correct. So shoot me...lol

But can't you just imagine their outfits??

They would be just....exquisitely perfect.

Angel ;)


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Tasting The Sugasm...Sugasm #147

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The Enigmatic Angel Finds Out Just HOW Kinky She IS

Ok so I've always wanted to know - just how kinky am I??

So I browsed and googled all over to find the best test - the kinkiest test -
that would measure my kink levels.

Everywhere I looked I found people referred to their kinky scores on the Hotlanta Kink test.

Well - who knew the Atlanta area was filled with such kinksters?
Well now I do! LOL

So here is my Kinky score:

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The Hotlanta Kink Test

Congratulations!

Your Hotlanta Kink Test score was 635!

Here is the chart so that you can see how you rated:

100 or less	You need to lighten up and live a little!
101 to 200	You have an average sex life in need of kink.
201 to 300	You have sweet hints of a kinky nature.
301 to 400	You have kinky playful tendencies.
401 to 500	You are definitely a kinky player.
501 to 600	You are kinkier than most!
601 to 700	You are a major league kinkster!
701 to 800	You live and breath kinky!!
801 to 900	Wow! You're too kinky for most!!!
901 or more	SUPER FREAK ALERT! You da BOMB!

The maximum score for this test is 1000.

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I actually thought I would score higher...go figure. :)

The Hotlanta Kink test is a very interesting one. It starts off with asking questions about many different kinds of sex and then heads into the bdsm/fetish areas.

And it sure was a whole lot of fun to take.
So why don't you go ahead...find out just how kinky YOU are.
And be sure to let me know.

Angel :)

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Tasting The Sugasm...Sugasm #146

Giving In To That Sugasm Craving...

Hmmm been awhile since I tasted the Sugasm.
Time to share that sugasmic taste with you all again!

Angel :)

Sugasm #146

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #147? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Nipple clamps, butt plug, Hitachi - oh my!
“Once the plug is in, I’m going to send you on a little walk.”

I discover transcendental orgasm
“It was peaceful, and like holding on to a live wire at the same time.”

When We Were Kids: Thoughts on BDSM
“The tying was always my favourite part, whether I was the one tied who had to escape, or the one who got to do the tying.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Like a Prayer - Part 2

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)

BDSM & Fetish
After the Party … (part III)
Catalina loves Naughty Secretary Roleplay
Charlotte Vale And I (Mz Berlin) In Bondage Gangbang On The Training Of O
The Enigmatic Angel’s Kinky Cinematic Journey ******MY POST! :) *******
The Pleasure Of Torment
Push Button Behavior Modification
The Sarge And Backdoor Bondage Have Great Impact Play And Hogtied Style Bondage Content
Shoes, it’s really all about the shoes.
Snap, Crackle, and Pop
Whipped Pussy Reminds You To Always Keep A Spare In The Trunk

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Bite Me
Chess
Lunch Date
On the phone
People we’ve always wanted to be
Submitting Again: Part 3
Top
Webcam
While it rains outside…
Your Gorgeous Polish Girlfriend does not feel like having sex tonight

Sex Work
The Age of Porn: Performers, Attraction, and Age
So there I was, with a caller…
The Whore in the House Next Door

NSFW pics
Dana by Goncharov (Met Art)
Fetish Model & PornSLUTkitty Gets Her Head Tattooed
A Fully Naked HHNT
Not a masochist

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
The Lelo Mia
Nea: by Lelo
Njoy’s Amazing Butt Plugs - A Sex Toy Review
Sex News Roundup

BDSM & Fetish
After the Party … (part III)
Catalina loves Naughty Secretary Roleplay
Charlotte Vale And I (Mz Berlin) In Bondage Gangbang On The Training Of O
The Enigmatic Angel’s Kinky Cinematic Journey
The Pleasure Of Torment
Push Button Behavior Modification
The Sarge And Backdoor Bondage Have Great Impact Play And Hogtied Style Bondage Content
Shoes, it’s really all about the shoes.
Snap, Crackle, and Pop
Whipped Pussy Reminds You To Always Keep A Spare In The Trunk

Sex Advice
Help, my boyfriend won’t go down on me!

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Can A Threesome Help You Find Your True Love?
Eco Sex and Green BDSM
Femme is a Noun, an Adjective, a Verb…
If You are Charming Smart, but Ugly, I Fuck You For Sure!
It’s a struggle.
Stripper Milf versus Stripper Teen: 69 points to ponder
Where The Hell Did My Boobs Go?

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The Enigmatic Angel's Kinky Cinematic Journey

The Good, The Bad - and The Cheesy

Do you remember what was the first kinky film you ever watched out on the big screen?

Recently, I tripped down memory lane when a series of clicks led me to remember my first kinky cinema outing - Preaching To the Perverted.

Flashback 10 years ago.

I sat in the old Eaton Centre cinema in downtown Montreal (which had become repertoire-esque in those last days before it closed) and felt such a sense of experiencing the wickedly forbidden - right out in the open where anyone could see me.

The theatre was not even half-full. It was a sea of fashionable black, as if we had all agreed on what to wear before we left the house. I felt like there was a HUGE spotlight on me because my fellow movie goers were mostly men sitting alone, with the odd couple here and there. I was the only woman there by herself. There was a touch of leather of course - leather pants and jackets - and a black studded collar or two.

A man came in and sat down a few rows behind me, in the back section of the cinema. He gave me one hard stare and I suspected he didn't want anyone sitting near him - and I guessed at the reason why. During the movie, I heard some constant rocking sounds that came from his direction and you can easily guess the reason for it. I had to try not to laugh as I wondered if he got off during the movie.

As for the movie itself, well for me it was such a decadent and tasty visual treat. It was about a moral crusader who tries to infiltrate the world of an infamous and beautiful Dominatrix. In the end, he just could not resist her wicked and enticing allure. Oh sure, I did think the end seemed a little pat and tacked on - but the rest of the movie? Oh my! It was tasty and gorgeous and the clothes! Guinevere Turner, who played the Evil Temptress Tanya Cheex, was so damn HOT in her delicious outfits. I think that might have been the first time I lusted for a woman. It sure left some questions in my mind. And I was so sad when the movie came to an end. Oh and just for fun, as I got up to leave the cinema I couldn't help but look at my highly-active fellow cinema-goer as he left. He looked rather sheepish when I just gave him one long, cool look. Kind of like a deer caught in headlights.

That was my first kinky cinema outing (outing in more ways than one) and that sure released the dam. Through-out the years, I always kept my eyes peeled for other kinky flicks and went to all the ones I could find.

There was Quills, a movie about the Marquis de Sade and the time he spent in prison. Geoffrey Rush did a fine job of playing a beguiling Marquis, leading a young priest, played by the tasty Joaquin Phoenix - and others - into temptation - all while still locked up in his cell.

The most atrocious and abominable rendition of a bdsm book had to have been the disastrous big screen adaption of Anne Rice's Exit To Eden. All the bdsm content was turned into a spoof and a joke. All of sudden a totally ludicrous subplot containing thieves and undercover cops had been inserted into the story-line - all to include 2 big stars - Rosie O'Donnell and Dan Aykroyd . I suspected the director and producer did that because they didn't think the movie would be carried on its own momentum. Well, it was a total cop-out. Here was a chance to bring to life one of my favourite and sublime Anne Rice books and it was made into an unattractive and ridiculous mess. I was incensed. The male friend I brought with me (who I later dated and who had a small taste for kink it turned out) did seem turned on by the bdsm content though - so something good came out of that movie at least. The movie was a great opener for me to discuss kinky things with him.

Most recently, I watched for the nth time, one of my favourite big screen bdsm movies, Secretary, on dvd.

What can I say about Secretary? Why do I like it so much?

Well, it's not about the bdsm or fetish scene at all. It's about 2 regular human beings who explore the concepts of Domination and submission together. I think that may be one of the reasons why I enjoy it so much - it reminds me a bit about me and my own journey.

Oh and while I was musing about the kinky films I've seen on the big screen, I stumbled upon a few interesting kinky film festivals, which I've now added to my blog under the header "Tasty Film Links".

Happy Kinky Movie Viewing, Kinky Folks!

Angel :)


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KinkySexLink.com: The Enigmatic Angel's New Home Away From Home

A ***NEW*** BDSM Haven for BDSM Bloggers

Recently, my good friend Lady Evyl decided to start up a new and exciting project: KinkySexLink.com.

KinkySexLink.com is a new site featuring an exciting and eclectic group of kinky, fetish and bdsm bloggers.

Well, when my good friend invited me to join this exciting new concept -
how could I say no?

It's just TOO tempting! :)

There are so many sites for sex bloggers out there but where can you find a site that welcomes an amalgamation of the kinkiest and most diverse bloggers out there?

So, I will be hanging out at KinkySexLink.com from time to time.

You'll see me cross-posting some posts from this blog, but I will also be writing content only to be found on KinkySexLink.com, my new virtual home away from home. :)

Check out my first post there:
Kinky Sex Link: A Kinky Haven For Kinky Bloggers

Come and check it out....the water's warm, kinky folks!

Angel :)


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A Domme To Combat The I.R.S.....and More

A Domme To Manage Your Money

Well, this is just something kind of neat that I stumbled across.

I know that many Dommes have their specialities. But this was just too great.

Meet Mistress Lori, The Tax Domme.
"Bringing your tax liability to its knees", her website says.

Oh and here is another cool thing.
Her mom is the The Financial Madam.

Looks like two sharp cookies with great genes!
Talk about great marketing indeed.

Too bad they only work in the U.S. ;)

Angel :)


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