dreaming

my mind took me
elsewhere

i saw you there
i tasted you
i kissed your salty skin

my teeth wanted to take a bite

but my lips won
and traced the side of your face

sometimes
the tenderness comes out

sometimes

i just dream.

***Angel 05/22/09




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Under 40 ~ The New Kinky Bar

It was a blog post on KinkySexLink, the group blog that I contribute to, that triggered my thoughts on the age factor, in the local BDSM scene & BDSM/Fetish audiences in general.

There is absolutely no doubt in my mind that the fetish events in town (that´s the fetish ones - not the BDSM ones) have a majority of young kinksters. And honestly, alot of the marketing is geared at that demographic.

I see more & more events and things being organized for the under 40 (and under 35 crowd). I even saw an interesting kinky vampire movie casting call out recently - and all the female characters were young.

Is that what people want to see? Do these young kinksters who keep getting younger, all want to run away from the older pervs?

I´ve heard that even expressed from friends as well, that emphasis on looking for someone/something young & hot.

I find this highly ironic in some ways. In my vanilla life, about 90% of my friends are younger than I am. I still feel like a kid myself inside. I have no problem relating to those younger friends. And they seem to get something positive out of my friendship with them.

I don´t feel old, but lots of segments in our society would classify me as old because I´m 40. What is 40 supposed to feel like? I don´t feel old. If anything, I actually felt freer & younger when I turned 40. It´s the fearless factor I think. Suddenly I didn´t give a damn about many things and just want to drink life in. It´s been great.

But I remember being in my 20s and thinking 40 was ancient. Hmm maybe I should scratch that. Looking back, I dated/saw/played with several men who were in their 40s, when I was in my 20s.

I see that age attitude today, in the local kinky scenes.

Oh yes, there is a good strong contingent of the 40 + and even 50+ crowd.

Personally, I feel comfortable talking to everyone young, old & everyone.

But I don´t understand this great prizing of the young, hot kinksters - why so many seek this young flesh to play with and preference for it. I prize maturity over youth. By then again, my ideas of beauty in general I have come to realize so many times, are quite different from the norm. I have been with many different kinds of men. Some men that I was seeing that made women jealous because they were perceived as being ¨gorgeous¨, others who may have seemed ordinary to different eyes. All of them had something special for me. Just as my taste in women is quite different as well.

So where is this kinky age thing going?

When all those aging kinky babyboomers retire from the scene, will the kinky youngsters inherit the earth?

Kinky food for thought.

Angel




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An Enigmatic Taste

Who is being dominated?
Who is dominating?
You guess.

I love blurring lines. Messing with perspectives, skewing them. Nudging this. Pushing that.

Pushing limits. Reality, fantasy, reality-based fantasy & fantasy-based reality.

I love describing up from the down view. Peeking sideways while pointing to the back.

Playing with the now like it´s plasticine, elastic. Something earthy to be shaped and flung into the future, with a slice of the past.

Sometimes I write from both the dominant and submissive views at the same time. Really.

And my mind flows into both, in the same time & space. I´ve done that in my writing. In the vanilla world. In the BDSM-flavoured universe.

Sometimes I just love being a Switch.




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high

where does it begin?
where does it end?

dangerous beginnings

oh that adrenalin rush
setting off the mad synapses of your brain
snapping snapping snapping
the twisted circuitry
that just does not want to short out
ever

the high that climbs higher
oh it climbs higher
can it go higher
oh it just went higher
higher than the limits of your imagination
a thing you thought impossible

and you love it
you own it
you are the moment
you say this is enough
you say i can take this
you say who cares about tomorrow

but there is a tomorrow

and there will be a tomorrow

when the circuitry breaks down
when the body rush dies down
when the daisy chain of pleasure & pain breaks down

and that is the dangerous end

and this is just a story i am telling you
and this is also real.

***Angel May 1, 2009




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Tasting The Sugasm...Sugasm #163

Yay!

Another week I´m in the Sugasm, kinky folks!
Savor the Sugasm... here & now.

Angel ;)

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Sugasm #163


The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #164? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Another Night With My Beer Buddy
“She nodded, her eyes closing with pleasure, his arm working.”

Blowjob in Red
“My voice descended into lust.”

Her dirty talk got me off. twice.
“Why does that turn me on so goddamn much?”

Sugasm Editor
Sex Work And Honesty: The Correct Answer

Editor’s Choice
Stockinged Feet

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)

BDSM & Fetish
Carnal Conversations
Cop Performs Subdrop Aftercare
Dream Whore
Explaining Cell Popping
A Pain-Drenched Rolling Stone Gathers No Moss *******MY POST*******
Poetic license

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Is Sex Positivity Bad for Feminism?
The Mark

NSFW Pics, Videos and Audio
Deviantly Different -HNT
Katrina Darrell Bikini Pictures from American Idol

Sex and Politics
It’s All Over Now Baby Blue…

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Ah, those heels
The Classless in Stripperville
Domination Fantasy
Fucking Ratios, Part 1
Fun With Rose
Kiss Me
Lisa’s torments 2 & 3
Naughty Photoshoot!
A Perfect Welcome
The Reunion
Shivers
Wet. Confession #258
Wet Spot #1 (Crescent Moons)
Wild Dream

Sex Advice
Nookie Tip
Solo Lady Love - Women and Masturbation
Steps Towards Enjoying Sex

Sex News, Reviews, and Interviews
The Hitachi Magic Wand - How it saved (or literally started up) my sex life
Pasties: Tassel Twirling 101
Race Play Interview, Part I
Radio Interview Tonight!

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spank

this is truth

a hand
5 digits spread wide
crashes down on the flesh
with a heavy unforgiving rhythm

one more
one more
one more

can you take one more?

yes you will take one more
yes you will
yes.

***Angel



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A Darkly Enigmatic Blossoming of Switch-hood

It's a very weird thing that got me to thinking about the subject of this blog.

I was rereading one of the many novels in the Anita Blake Vampire Hunter series.

In one scene, a werewolf was fighting the different lycanthropic beasts trying to rise up and out. A lioness. A leopard. A wolf. And something Other.

It made me think of the twin kinky spirits within me, that are in every Switch.

The dominant and the submissive And they are like symbiotic twins. I can´t imagine just having one or the other. But sometimes I have wondered, if I was just a sadomasochist. Maybe it's not a question of tops & bottoms, dominants and subs. Maybe it´s just that sharp bite of pain that beckons, the pain from both ends...of the equation.

Well, I feel those two halves twinned & twined inside of me, each craving release in their own way. Both of them make me purr. I wonder how this twin-spiritedness came to be. And when they came to be. I thought it was a more recent phenomenon, but lately I have seen the signs were both there for a long, long time.

As I feel both sides shifting inside me, they feel like a sweetly dark blossoming, long dark tendrils reaching out, unfurling. Craving the thirst-quenching waters that feed them – the dark waters of my fantasies, of my playing.

Who knows what shape this dark flower will take?

For now, I savor the dark embrace of the blossoming itself.




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